Friday, July 25, 2008

One of the stories that inspired me


Its not my story..I copied it from someone..because I liked the story


My mother used to ask me: "What is the most important part of the body?"

Through the years I would take a guess at what I thought was the correct answer. When I was

younger, I thought sound was very important to us as humans, so I said, "My ears, Mommy."

Mother said, "No Many people are deaf. But you keep thinking about it and I will ask you again

soon."

Several years passed before she asked me again. Since making my first attempt, I had

contemplated the correct answer. So this time I told her, "Mommy, sight is very important to

everybody, so it must be our eyes." Mother looked at me and told me, "You are learning fast, but the

answer is not correct because there are many people who are blind."

Stumped again, I continued my quest for knowledge. Over the years, Mother asked me a couple

more times and always her answer was, "No, but you are getting smarter every year, my child."

Then last year, my grandpa died. Everybody was hurt. Everybody was crying. Even my father cried. I

remember that especially because it was only the second time I saw him cry. My Mom looked at me

when it was our turn to say our final good-bye to Grandpa.

Mother asked me, "Do you know the most important body part yet, my dear?"

I was shocked when she asked me this now. I always thought this was a game between her and

me. Mother saw the confusion on my face and told me, "This question is very important. It shows

that you have really lived in your life. For every body part you gave me in the past, I have told you

was wrong and I have given you an example why. But today is the day you need to learn this

important lesson."

Mother looked down at me as only a mother can. I saw her eyes well up with tears. Mother said, "My

dear, the most important body part is your shoulder."

I asked, "Is it because it holds up my head?"

Mother replied, "No, it is because it can hold the head of a friend or a loved one when they cry.

Everybody needs a shoulder to cry on sometime in life, my dear. I only hope that you have enough

love and friends that you will always have a shoulder to cry on when you need it."


Then and there I knew the most important body part is not a selfish one. It is sympathetic to the

pain of others. People will forget what you said... People will forget what you did.... But people will

NEVER forget how you made them feel.

True or not, the story makes you stop and think. Be blessed. Be a blessing. Get your shoulder ready..

Thursday, July 10, 2008

Is it in the authority of teachers to do everything as they wish?

[This feature is based on some of the teachers who are currently teaching in famous colleges..Only a few are like this.. ]


Is it in the authority of teachers to do all things as they wish? In the class rooms,In the exam halls,Among their group and in other places ????

NO?? YES???WHAT??

The University is paying no attention now a days to what the teachers are doing to students .Nor are they interested to know what is happening to the teacher student relations in colleges.The future of students rather than being secure are being getting worser and worser each year ,not because they are doing it on purpose ,but the teachers are making it worser.
Once upon a time it was believed that teachers were the Source of Knowledge, Wisdom and Intelligence.A teacher was originally a person who behaved in such a way that the students admired them and trained themselves to be like their teacher..

The Indian Culture tells to obey a teacher,To respect them,study from them not only what they teach you,But HOW THEY BEHAVE,HOW THEY LVE,THEIR PRINCIPLES,THEIR LOVE,THEIR LIFE. The main motive of a teacher must not be to make money,but to make their students better men/women for the future,so as to build a good population.

But what we can see now-a-days is just the reverse..The teachers behave as though they dont even know the syllabus.They are the ones now to be taught how to behave to students..There is a famous saying "You reap what you had sow"..Effort must be made from the part of the teachers to save the future from being the worst. SAVE THE PLANET... SAVE INDIA..SAVE KERALA..
And now about the colleges of Kearala..
It had been ages since they hav done their jobs correctly.
Assignments indirectly mean that they are not going to teach those portions .
The late submission of assignemnts means decrese of the full marks for assignments..
The failure or decrease in marks in tests means that decrease of sessional marks

But..
For the teachers..
Assignments means nothing to be taught
They can take leave as long as they want..Doesnt matter how they teach the students,What the students understood and what they want the teacher to do so that they can excel in studies..

And how they can decrease marks in sessionals..They have got their own way..They reduce marks if they see that the students as a whole are not obeying her orders..


I dont want to continue more than this..If anyone likes to add any thing to this can post comments on this..
Would you like to add to this feature any of your thoughts..Send them to me..